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Judging from my experience and observations on how ladies of nowadays take this world to be especially when love is mentioned. First ladies are the ones who contradict the whole things. Yes love is real and is also bound to fade with time (that is if its not maintained). So I have decided to write this open letter to our ladies. so i have been able to pick out some issues that can sustain your relationship and make you happy
FIRST IMPRESSION MATTERS
Ladies misinterpret the fact that when a man sees them and
appreciates them that its now a crime and it leads to series of insults for the
man. Ladies I know that most times an average beautiful lady is either dating
or married, but we men out there we don’t know that unless you let us to know. Yes
first impression matters a lot even if you don’t like the guy or you feel you
are taken; the right thing to do is to say something like “hi, I know you know
are interested in me or something like that but I would respect you a lot if
you give me a breathing space cause I am occupied, taken or married (depending
on the situation)”
REQUESTING FINANCIAL SUPPORT
And again ladies like to persuade their like guys for
financial support, that is very nice and when wrongly done its now bad. Your boy
friend is a man-to-be so he knows he is responsible to making his girl happy. But
the last thing a guy needs is the mandatory aspect of it. Nothing turns on a
man than a lady who is financially independent. That is why a man would leave
his beautiful girlfriend and marry a lady who is less pretty but is financially
dependent. The more you tell your guys I need an iphone, a laptop, Brazilian
hair, sneakers, this make up and that dress, you are telling him you are not a
marriage material and you just want to eat his money by all means. Yes at first
he will feel proud that his girl is at least making him feel dedicated but he
will feel bad when you make a mandatory. Yes he loves you and knows his responsibilities
but doesn’t need a long note to tell what they are.
SEX AND LOVE
Well lets talk about one of the most important aspect of a
relationship which is the duo love and sex. These are two different things
which work hand-in-hand but I noticed that ladies think sex is love. Sorry if
you are one of those who believe that because I man needs love more than he
needs sex. What is miracle trying to say, yes it’s the secret you don’t know
about. They need your constant calls, text, chats and drop-bys more than that sex. Sex keeps you guys
emotional active, I mean its makes you guys romantic but it has a limit. That’s
is when love is needed, those times he stops calling, stops texting, stops
calling you your favorite pet name and stops taking you out. Yes the truth is
that he is busy with his life, work or anything. Yes he is a man and don’t expect
him to be your sidekick follow like “Xena and Gabriel” . when he begins acting
like that’s what he needs is assurance that you still love him and not sex.
BRAGGING
Its really funny when I see ladies bragging about one thing
or the other. See he knew your father is rich, he knows you are more educated
than he is, he knows you are more financially capable than he is before he
decided to walk to you for a relationship. Hello, he is a man and the bitter
truth is that you can’t be better than he is. He is proven to have a high level
brain to deal with things, which you don’t have so please don’t brag, rather,
please call him and let him see reasons with you and you guys can sort things
out.
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