HOW TO FOLLOW UP A CRUSH WITH OUT UPSETTING HIM

Do you have a crush on someone and you have chance to talk to that person or even exchange phone numbers? It’s all good, but you may want to avoid doing these wrong things when chatting with him over the phone.

By not acting desperate, you may actually get to date your crush… which is the ultimate goal for you right?

Alicia Fanning of All Women Stalk lists 7 habits to avoid when texting your crush:

1.Blowing up his phone: Okay, girlies, I know this is very tempting! After all, you think he’s just amazing and you want to talk to him all the #time. I get it. But you don’t want to constantly blow up his phone. As difficult as it is, you need to give him some space. Show your interest but don’t let it go overboard.

2.Texting at the wrong time: If you know your #crush has plans then hold your texts. Even if he loves talking to you and may be interested in you as his potential GF, there are just times it’s better not to text. If he’s having dinner with his family or hanging with the guys, respect that he’s busy and hold your texts till later. Get busy doing something of your own while you’re waiting for him to be free to talk. Use this time to hang out with your friends, work out or do whatever makes you happy while you’ve got the free #time.

  3. 3 Texting him first all the time: We’re modern #women. We know it’s okay for us to text a #guy first. But, you don’t want to text him first all the #time. You can but if you do then you’re cheat*ng yourself a #little bit. You want to give him the opportunity to miss you and then shoot you a text.

 4   Pressuring him into dating: Girls, you don’t want to ever pressure a #crush into dating you even if you think he’s the greatest guy in the entire world. Relationships that start like that often end badly. Instead, make it your goal to be friendly and #flirty. Let him know you’re single but don’t push #things. If he’s interested then he’ll let you know so have no worries about that issue.

  5  Trying to make him jealous: This trick could backfire, especially if his interest is still minimal toward you. Yes, it’s sort of cute when you see that a #guy is a tiny bit jealous but it’s not worth the risk to try to cause that. You want to build his interest in you. Trying to make him jealous could push him away. He might even think that he’s infringing on another guy’s territory and back away.

  6  Pushing for more: Here’s a little secret, ladies. Guys don’t like clingy girls, but they love confident girls. And you have every right to be confident in your #beautiful self! You can show your interest in him without resorting to doing things like begging him to text you or other clingy actions. You won’t have to do those #things if he’s interested and if he’s not then move on to the next cutie!

   7 Texting things you’d be embarrased about if other people saw: This is always a good rule to follow in any kind of technology. Never text, say or post anything that you’d be embarra$$ed if other #people saw. Even if the chances are slim, there’s still a #chance. Keep it clean and you’ll have no regrets. The #girl you are is enough to win a guy’s heart without sending texts you don’t want anyone to know about.

THINGS YOURFRIEND WISHED YOU KNEW

1. Men Say ‘I Love You’ With Actions
Some men prefer to show their feelings through actions rather than words. Your guy may say “I love you” by fixing things around the house, tidying up the yard, or even taking out the trash — anything that makes your world a better place.
2. Men Take Commitment Seriously
Men have a reputation for being afraid to commit. But the evidence suggests men take marriage seriously. They may take longer to commit because they want to make sure they are onboard for good. In a survey of currently married men, 90% say they would marry the same woman again.
3. He Really Is Listening
When you’re listening to someone talk, you probably chime in with a “yes” or “I see” every now and then. It’s your way of saying, “I’m listening.” But some guys don’t do this. Just because a man isn’t saying anything doesn’t mean he’s not listening. He may prefer to listen quietly and think about what you’re saying.
4. Shared Activities Form Bonds
Men strengthen their relationships with their partners through doing things together, more than by sharing thoughts or feelings. For many men, activities like sports and sex make them feel closer to their partner.
5. Men Need Time for Themselves
While shared activities are important, men also need time for themselves. Whether your guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at the gym, encourage him to pursue his hobbies, while you make time for your own. When both partners have space to nurture their individuality, they have more to give to each other.
6. Men Learn From Their Fathers
If you want to know how a man will act in a relationship, get to know his dad. How they are with each other and how the father relates to his own partner can predict how a man will relate to his wife.

7. Men Let Go Faster Than Women
Women tend to remember negative experiences longer and may have lingering feelings of stress, anxiety, or sadness. In contrast, men are less likely to dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move on more quickly. So while you may still want to talk about last night’s argument, your guy may have already forgotten about it.
8. Men Don’t Pick Up on Subtle Cues
Men are more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of voice or facial expressions. And they are especially likely to miss sadness on a woman’s face. If you want to make sure your guy gets the message, be direct.
9. Men Respond to Appreciation
Showing appreciation for your guy can make a big difference in the way he acts. Take parenting: Studies show that fathers are more involved in care-giving when their wives value their involvement and see them as competent
10. Men Think About Sex … A Lot
OK, so maybe this one is no secret. Most men under age 60 think about sex at least once a day, compared with only a quarter of women. And that’s not all. Men fantasize about sex nearly twice as often as women do, and their fantasies are much more varied. They also think more about casual sex than women do. But thinking is not the same as doing.

ever wonered why beautiful ladies end up single. see them here

have you wondered why is it that so many beautiful women end up single? well, yesterday my friends and I had a heated up debate conversation on this topic. Many are the times when men leave totally beautiful women and go for another woman who if asked is not even halfway as good looking, leaving the beautiful woman ‘strung along’

This is nothing new to me what so ever.

Someone once told me that beautiful women are the loneliest beings on earth. For some unknown reason, the attractive woman is never really married or taken. Sadly, she is always playing the role of the ‘back up plan’ or ‘the other woman’.

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Many men tend not to have extremely attractive women for wives or girlfriends but will always stare, wink, or approach them when their better halves are not around. The sad part is that at the end of the day, the men would not leave their significant others for the beautiful woman.

Assumptions/false conclusions- when a man looks or spots a beautiful woman at a party, he will automatically expect the beautiful woman to be taken which is usually far from the truth.

Insecurity- sometimes, men do not go for extremely beautiful women because they feel that they are not ready to spend their whole life chasing her around and making sure that no other guy is after her. This is a form of insecurity.
Low expectations- some men would look at a beautiful woman and not expect a pretty girl to know how to cook.
Stereotypes- A stereotypic man would expect a beautiful woman to be a bad cook because she has most likely been spoilt by society doing things for her just because of how she looks.
Narcissism- most beautiful women suffer from this and are therefore unable to maintain long term relationships because of their self indulgent ways. It’s all about her and what she does. Therefore, most men would rather go for a lesser pretty woman than a narcissist.
Negatively ambitious attitude- being ambitious is okay but the negative kind of ambition is wrong. The beautiful woman feels she has all the time in the world to snag that rich, handsome guy and is not willing to settle for anything less.

Raising the bar so high- she wants perfection, she wants the perfect man and therefore if a man does not look his occupation, she does not bother giving him the time of day. She battles with feeling of discontent and forgets that nobody’s perfect.
Someone once told me that beauty is not everything. Just because the flower is beautiful, doesn’t mean that the man will want to pick it. Once a man spots a beautiful flower, the next step is to find the real person behind the mask
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HEY ANGEL! DO YOU KNOW IF HE MEANS IT?

Several guys are quite comfortable with expressing
their affections for the one they love. But most guys
have a hard time expressing their feelings the
romantic way. Your guy may say that he loves you,
but he may not be the most proficient when it
comes to expressing just how much you mean to
him.
If your boyfriend or husband doesn’t express his
romantic side as often as you’d like him to, it
doesn’t mean he’s getting bored of you. He may
actually be indulging in many other ways to express
his true love for you. But are you really noticing it?
For girls, saying ‘I love you’ is the biggest sign of
commitment in a relationship. And girls love feeling
reassured every now and then.But for guys, saying
‘I love you’ the first few times is important. Beyond
that, compatibility and understanding matters more
than anything else.
But if you want to know if a guy you’re not dating
just yet likes you, read these awesome signs in
signs he’s in love with you already.
1. He Remembers What You Say.
A guy who’s in love with a girl always listens to her
and remembers what she says, even if it’s
something trivial because he takes her seriously.
2. He’s chivalrous and Treats You Like a Lady.
A guy is chivalrous to a girl when he cares about
what she thinks of his behavior. If your guy doesn’t
care about you, he wouldn’t care what you think of
his behavior.
3. He Takes Care of Your Needs.
If your man truly loves you, he’d always look for
little ways to make your life better, be it about
covering you with a blanket when you’re cold,
charging your cell phone even when you don’t ask
him, or serving you the better piece of chicken
when you’re not looking.
4. You’re Always a Part of His Big Plan in Life.
He speaks about his life and his dreams with you,
and you always have a prominent place in all his
future plans.
5. He Holds Your Hand Instinctively
when you’re in a crowd, or places his hand on your
back while crossing the street. This is a reflex
action that neither of you may realize. If a guy loves
you, he’d definitely want to protect you and
reassure you.
6. He Values Your Opinions a lot
Ooh yes, he doesn’t take any important decisions
about his own life without hearing your opinions and
having a discussion with you.
7. He is Ever Holding Your Palm, Wrist or Waist in
Public
He wraps his hands around you or stands closer to
you when you’re talking to some other guys and
having a good laugh. It’s his way of letting the world
know that you’re the one he loves and every other
guy should back away.
8. He’s Very Protective of You.
If you’re taking a trip by yourself or even if you’re
just driving out with friends, does he like receiving
your call after you get to your destination? If your
man can relax only after knowing that you’re safe,
no matter where you are, he definitely has a special
spot for you in his heart.
9. He’s Very Interested in Your Life.
If your man loves you, he’d always be eager to
know everything about your day, including the little
details of whether you had your lunch, what
bothered you while he was away, and the
difficulties of your day
10. The Helping Hand and Makes up After Fight
He’s always ready to offer a helping hand every
time you ask him even if he’s busy and he does it
while whining and grumbling at the same time.
He makes up after a fight just as much as you
make up with him. And at times, he even swallows
his pride and apologizes first even if it’s not his
fault in any manner.

EVER TRIED MAKING HER SMILE AND FAILED? THEN THIS IS FOR YOU

Have you Ever noticed how a dog just has to wag his tail and lay his with small paw to make you smile? guess what, winning a woman over is that easy. You don’t need to be extremely funny or Mr romantic; to make a girl laugh all you need is a genuine wish to see a nice, bright smile on her face. Here are  ways to make a woman smile.

1. Surprise her with a lovely dinner when she comes home. If you don’t know how to cook, then order her favorite dish from a restaurant. you can remove her coat and also massage her feet as a bonus.

 2. Send her a nice lovey dovey text

while she’s asleep. So that when she wakes up, she’ll be so happy when she wakes up and reads it.

3. Tell her that shes beautiful

, instead of hot, cute or gorgeous. it means much more to a woman to be called beautiful. it is much more, shows how you value her.

 4. Have a very romantic dinner date planned out so that all she has to do is look good and show up. she will appreciate the effort.

 5. Sneak up behind her,

hold her around her waist, kiss her softly on the neck and tell her you love her. women love to hear those three words said and adding a cute gesture while saying it will make her very happy.

6. Randomly send her a text

telling her you miss her.

7. Bring her flowers for no reason at all.

Not just when you’re in trouble or on Valentine’s Day.

8. Buy her a pair of earrings or anklets.

women love accessories, so do it and so every time she wears it, she’ll think about you and smile.

9. Take her best friends out for coffee or dinner.

She’ll appreciate your gesture of getting to know her friends. Also, the compliments her friends will give her for being so lucky to have a thoughtful boyfriend like you will make her gloat.

10. Don’t get jealous of her guy friends.

She chose to date you over them,don’t impose a rulebook of dos and don’ts on her. This will let her know that you trust her completely.

11. Begin a sentence with,

“Next year on your birthday…”, “Next Christmas we’ll…” or “Next month we will…” This will let her know that you’re serious about the relationship and that you’re in it for the long run.

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WHY BEAUTIFUL LADIES END UP SINGLE

have you wondered why is it that so many beautiful women end up single? well, yesterday my friends and I had a heated up debate conversation on this topic. Many are the times when men leave totally beautiful women and go for another woman who if asked is not even halfway as good looking, leaving the beautiful woman ‘strung along’

This is nothing new to me what so ever.

Someone once told me that beautiful women are the loneliest beings on earth. For some unknown reason, the attractive woman is never really married or taken. Sadly, she is always playing the role of the ‘back up plan’ or ‘the other woman’.

BECOME A TECH GIG IN HOURS

Many men tend not to have extremely attractive women for wives or girlfriends but will always stare, wink, or approach them when their better halves are not around. The sad part is that at the end of the day, the men would not leave their significant others for the beautiful woman.

Assumptions/false conclusions- when a man looks or spots a beautiful woman at a party, he will automatically expect the beautiful woman to be taken which is usually far from the truth.

Insecurity- sometimes, men do not go for extremely beautiful women because they feel that they are not ready to spend their whole life chasing her around and making sure that no other guy is after her. This is a form of insecurity.
Low expectations- some men would look at a beautiful woman and not expect a pretty girl to know how to cook.
Stereotypes- A stereotypic man would expect a beautiful woman to be a bad cook because she has most likely been spoilt by society doing things for her just because of how she looks.
Narcissism- most beautiful women suffer from this and are therefore unable to maintain long term relationships because of their self indulgent ways. It’s all about her and what she does. Therefore, most men would rather go for a lesser pretty woman than a narcissist.
Negatively ambitious attitude- being ambitious is okay but the negative kind of ambition is wrong. The beautiful woman feels she has all the time in the world to snag that rich, handsome guy and is not willing to settle for anything less.

Raising the bar so high- she wants perfection, she wants the perfect man and therefore if a man does not look his occupation, she does not bother giving him the time of day. She battles with feeling of discontent and forgets that nobody’s perfect.
Someone once told me that beauty is not everything. Just because the flower is beautiful, doesn’t mean that the man will want to pick it. Once a man spots a beautiful flower, the next step is to find the real person behind the mask
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HOW TO FIND YOUR PERFECT LOVE MATCH WITHOUT GETTING HURT FIRST

It’s very rampant the issue of people complaining to love more than one person and today I was confronted by young lady who told me that she so much loves a young man but that the guy sees her as a casual friend and that she still loves her current boyfriend but that the love is not to be equated to the love she has for this young man, now her current boy friend is very serious seeing her as someone who so much love him, were as the lady is busy having a crush on another person.

So if by mistake you find yourself in the kind of situation and you are wondering how to be free from complicating your feelings, just cheer up and smile because I will be giving your clues on how to successfully deal with such things, but you have to follow my clues wisely. Before I continue with my explanations you have know that the same way you fall in-love is equally the way you fall out of love. Now if you find yourself in a difficult situation just

Follow your heart: - yes you heard me right, it’s your feelings we are talking about and you know exactly what you want at any moment and if you think your current spouse is not really up-to-the task of being your spouse then just let go!

Put them to test: - if you know you are a type that need care and wants to be respected. The best way to find your perfect match is to give them the opposite for a while to see who stands by your side. But be cautious while doing this as it could give your more than joy because I found out some people find it hard to deal with someone they love while others don’t, so just be wise.

KNOW THINGS YOU CANT KNOW FOR FREE

All that glitters are not gold:- like seriously? Yes! Some people can present themselves to be drastically what they are not. So the best way to deal with them is to just snub them from the beginning. When someone seems not to have any flaw and seems to be just caring and always extravagant and you think its love? Then you need to think twice and look deep down to truly know him/her.

Change your life style: - this might sound weird but some people love you because you behave in a particular way and if you should start dating them, that means that in the future should you change that trait they love in you then might cause havoc to you two, so its better you change now that it’s too early so that you will know exactly if they “love you for you” or “they love you for something”

Finally show your flaws:- people who don’t truly love you tend to leave immediately they see your odds. So if you are confused on what to go for? Then show your odd and see who still will tolerate you and be with you. Now with this clues I believe you will not make unnecessary mistakes while choosing your lover. 

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HOW TO STOP LOVING SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE YOU

you can agree with me when i say that loving someone who doesnt love you is the hardest thing that every average young person can do. its not that its too hard but the feelings are so damning and you can believe me when i say that loving someone who doesn’t love you is one of the most hopeless feelings in the world because it isn’t something you can control. Then again, this is exactly why you need to start the healing process: it’s not your fault, there’s nothing you could have done differently, and the only thing left to do is move on

1. Be Honest With Yourself.

How and why you feel about another says a lot about you. How and why the other person feels about us says a lot about them. It is important to let it sink in deeply that the person being loved does not love back. It hurts. Feel it. Allow yourself to grieve. You do not have to know why. Grieving is the beginning of the healing.

2. Focus on the Negative.

Though you don’t need to start a crusade to turn the person you care about into a monster, it’s time to start thinking of some bad things to balance out the good ones.

Accept the fact that this person will never love you back. Too hurtful? The better. The more you internalize this fact and hard wire it into your system, it allows you to remove any false hope that’s within you, making it easier for you to stop loving this person.

3. Get Rid of Mementos.

Make space for a new person in your life by letting these things go. In fact, make a mini ceremony for it. As you go through each item, think of the memory associated with it, then imagine putting that memory in a balloon. As you get rid of the thing, imagine the balloon drifting away never to be seen again.

4. Avoid Memory-Triggers.

If you associate the person with a particular song or album, stop listening. If you always used to hang out in a certain spot, stop going. If you have a lot of mutual friends, make a point of hanging out with other people. If you still see each other regularly, stop if at all possible. (This may be difficult at work or school, but you can start by wearing headphones when they’re around, eating lunch somewhere else, walking along new routes, etc.) Don’t surround yourself with mental and emotional reminders; it’s no substitute for having the real thing and will just delay the healing.

5. Find Creative Ways to Stop Dwelling on the Person.

While it’s impossible to not think about something, it is possible to divert your thoughts elsewhere whenever you start to go down that rabbit hole. Every time those memories bubble up, distract yourself with another thought, activity, or project. Call a friend. Watch a hilarious movie. Build something. Work in the garden and anything that will engage you for long enough to get the person off your mind for a while. The more of a habit you make of not thinking about the person, the easier it will become.

6. Think of everything you’ve been missing.

How long have you been in love with this person now? Months? Years? And in that time, how many opportunities for other relationships do you think you have passed up? Remember, the next love of your life is out there right now wondering when they’ll find you. Don’t waste another moment being unavailable.

7. Get back in the game.

Put yourself out there, meet new people, flirt, and remind yourself how great it feels to be a catch. Your confidence surely needs the boost – and in the meantime, you’ll meet interesting new people. In fact, every time someone is better in some way than the person you’ve been chasing – better looking, funnier, smarter, more down to earth – make note of it. It’ll put things into perspective.

8. Don’t be ashamed of having loved and lost.

In some cases, it can be impossible to stop loving someone, but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Loving another person is a beautiful, selfless act, even if it doesn’t result in a relationship. With time, the hurt will lessen, you will become interested in someone else, and you’ll create new love. If there’s anything the world needs more of, it’s that.

9. Keep Looking for Another Person.

It’s good option to keep looking for another person of your match. Sometimes it may take time but you don’t know when fortune takes your turn.

WHY THEY CHEAT(WOMEN)

First i want you to understand that anyone can cheat . do you know that a lady can decide to cheat on you, gentleman there even if you are in a strong relationship
and even to an extend when you are settled? Have you
ever asked yourself why and may be never got an answer
to your questions? Do you want to know the reasons so
that you can correct where necessary? Worry no more, I’ll
provide you with the answers to your problems.
1. She Has Been Promoted
Women think and like to have projects and goals. When
she reaches a milestone, say in her career, she may start
to think of another big part of her life like having a man to
match with her new status. While climbing the new levels
of success she’ll feel that goals are achievable hence be
motivated to get the rest of her life on track all in your
relationship expense.
2. She Thinks You’ve Cheated
As we all know revenge affairs are common, it deeply hurts
a woman to have doubts in a man that he has at a time
cheated at her. if the man has never confessed and
apologized, then this can affect her psychology and in
efforts to settle this down her mind she will cheat on you
as a revenge.
3. She Is Not Getting Enough
Its women nature, through oxytocin hormone that plays a
central role in her urge to bond spikes into three to five
levels higher than usual just before orgasm something
which is more intense in females than in males. If the two
of you are not having enough sex as you used to have she
might interpret this as a sign you don’t find her attractive
and that you don’t love her and hence seek some pleasure
outside the relationship to validate that she is still
sexually attractive.
4. She Is Ready To Bolt
Ooh yes… She can find ways and means to dump you by
cheating on you. Every man demands to be treated with
due respect in any relationship by their woman. If it
happens by any chance and because of the reasons well
known by the woman, she can decide to cheat causing
disrespect hence disappointing the man. Something she is
sure will cause separation hence will have wined to dump
you.
5. He’s Turning Old
A woman psychology is never in a standstill and can
trigger her to cheat on you.
It may happen she had her plans in the relationship but as
time goes by she realizes she is not getting satisfaction
something which can make her jump to another affair to
correct the feeling.
6. She Is Emotionally Starved
Lack of children in a relationship more so when the doubt
falls to a man can lead to infidelity. A man can afford to
buy his wife expensive cars and accumulate every wealth
deemed necessary but without satisfying his wife by giving
impregnating her then she will have a reason to cheat or
walk away from the relationship.
7. Women Build Strong Emotional Connections Really Fast
It’s easy for them to get close to a guy and confuses the
bond she has with her man and jump to another affair.
8. They Love a Man Who Can Give Emotional Support
Did you know that you can a woman by providing her a
shoulder to lean on? She will give her everything including
bed to sleep on if only you show some concern of help to
her.
9. They Get Confused of Their Feelings
A woman may love her man generally but her moods
swings ebb and flow like the tides of the sea. She likes
you sometimes but bitches you at other times. Once a
man settles down, the woman starts unsettling.

FIND OUT HE CANT TELL YOU ON THE GO

Today ladies I am glad I can tell you 9 solid things your man needs from you but will not open up. I know you are keeping lots of secrets
from men, and even though you think you’ve got men all
figured out, just know that your man is hiding few things
himself and no single day his tongue will slip to let them
out like;
1. Don’t Do Lots of Makeup
Men love their wives the way they woke up in the morning
without lots of makeups. It is only that he can’t say it out
but inside he burns for your change. Just do a little of it
without much exaggeration. Natural is sexier!
2. Leave the Eyebrows Alone
I’m sure we spend lots of money just to look good for our
men, how will you feel i9f all the efforts you are showing
goes unseen? I believe you will be discouraged and may be
feel that he is seeing someone else out there, that’s not
the point, you are doing a lot of it, to him you are like a
scarecrow. Plucked eyebrows aren’t pretty.
3. When the Game is on He is Reading You
When you are making love a man will be paying attention
to you if you are nice about it, bark, and they shut down.
He will never let you know how you perform but will lie if
forced to say. Put this in mind while you are there twisting
your waist or screaming out!
4. He Doesn’t Need Directions
Every man think and believes In himself that he knows
where to hit, it feels lowered to direct him on which side to
drive to and how to go about it. Let your man feel he is a
man when on bed!
5. Men Crave for Hugs and Hand Holding Too
Do you shy giving just a hug to your man just because you
are in public? Ooh no, you should know that he needs it
and also yawns to hold your hand in whatever place you
are in at any given time. Doing this doesn’t mean to them
that this will lead to sex!
6. There Is no Better Sound In the World Than You
Every upright man loves everything about his woman from
the reasoning to bed. What a woman should know is that
whenever she sings in any of the tunes or while in bed
screams when she is having orgasm she should never be
worried how her man understands this, he loves the sound!
7. You are Really Bad at Faking It
Every woman should understand that it is not a must every
time she is on bed with her man to reach orgasm; it
depends on how well you prepared each other and how
ready you are in receiving it. If it happens your man
reaches orgasm fast than you do then just take a breath,
relax help him calm down and let him know you didn’t
reach it. Don’t fake it lowers who you are on bed for him.
8. Tell Him He is Handsome
Men don’t mind being told they look good, don’t just call it
a “cute outfit” appreciate his beauty and efforts to look
good for you or else he will seek it out from another
woman who is able to see it.
9. Make Your Man Laugh or He Will Hang Around
Men don’t like gloomy women around them. Cheer up, find
new interesting stories to share with him without fear and
expressing every feeling you have for him and he will stick
by you.

WHY YOU KEEP HURTING YOUR GIRL

Based on my experience with women, and as a an adviser in relationships, i have noticed that apart from the popularly known characteristics
possessed by a woman, her fragile state is something
that most men forget. At times it is because most men
do not totally understand the depth of a woman’s
feelings thus their behavior. Below, I have listed some
of the things that whether said or done end up hurting
a woman’s feelings.

LIES
Lie to her. Lying to a woman who already knows the
truth is one thing but lying to her without her
knowledge is another. When a woman learns that you
have been lying to her in several occasions, she stops
trusting you out of the hurt you caused her.
Physical appearance critics.
Before you judge a woman by her complexion or size,
make sure you are 100% perfect. When you tell a
woman that her teeth are too spaced, she will spend
most of her time looking at herself in the mirror and
wondering how she can fix it.

Forgetting of important dates .
Set a reminder if you have to but do not forget her
birth date or your anniversary date. Those are special
memories that she expects you to have in mind for as
long as the word itself. Forgetting such important dates
only shows how little you care about your relationship.

The flirtatious man
A man who flirts with every other woman is a perfect
example of a disrespectful man. Some men have the guts
to do it right in front of their women.

The self – centered man
This is a man who thinks only of himself. He thinks the
world revolves around him and matters concerning his
partner do not matter to him. He does not care why she
was crying last night or why she is in a bad mood
because he is too focused on himself.
The abusive man
He physically or verbally abuses his partner frequently
and puts her down every time she gives her opinion on
something they are discussing about.

BUSY MAN
Most of the times he is usually busy watching soccer
with his friends or browsing the internet. He never has
time for his woman. He always has more important
things to do. No matter how busy a man is, he will
always find time to spend with his partner. Apparently,
that is how love and relationships work.

Public embarrassments
At times men overdo jokes about issues that may be
sensitive and embarrassing to women. For example
when a man publicly laughs at her open fly that was
offcourse a mistake. Embarrassing her in public
demeans a woman.
Sometimes a man may be hurting his woman’s feelings
without knowing it . Most of the times they do things
without knowing that she will be hurt. I say that if a
man does not know that he is hurting someone, he will
not change anything. Therefore, the list above should be
an aid that will help every man realize what he has
been doing wrong in his relationship and change for the
better.

TOP TEN QUALITIES OF MEN WORTHY OF DATING

We’ve had several cases, women saying all men are the
same, others say they’re all dogs, others say they
shouldn’t be trusted. Yeah we men have heard all this but
that doesn’t make us all the same, I know finding the right
man is so hard since most men now days don’t know what
they want, so today I Listed down some of the qualities
that a real man has, hope you enjoy.
HERE:-
1. He is honest – about who he is and what he has done in
his life.
2. He speaks up – even if it is to say things others don’t
want to hear.
3. He is focused on progress – not performance – on the
process, not the goal.
4. He Loves his family and therefore wants to protect them
from harm. This does not have to involve fighting anyone.
5. He Has a true purpose – one that hopefully contributes
to the well being of others.
6. He thrives not in competition, but in cooperation.
Competition is based on winners and losers, placing value
in it simply makes losers feel less of themselves and
makes winners buy into the temporary delusion that they
are better than others.
7. He is A Devoted fathers not deadbeat dads!
8. He Love and Believes In God
9. He Respects women and never man-handles them.
10. He Moves away from sin
One thing I have definitely learn’t over the past year, is that
life will humble you. It humbles all of us at one time or
another, which is something that we either embrace, or we
fight. If we resist, and we’re never humbled by ‘these
moments’, we’ll never learn.

FOUR FACTS WOMEN SHOULD KNOW

We Men know women Go through a lot Over their past
relationships or marriage with their man but that doesn’t
make you to hate all men for that one or two men who
broke your heart, have written some few points here just to
let you know on what to do when your still SINGLE, Enjoy!
1. Stop Mixing Sex With Love.
Sex Is not Love and Love Will never be sex, so trying to
make him love you by making love to him is the stupid
thing to do, so you know it makes you cheap to him and
his going to dump you for another woman, know how to
handle then man you wanna be with stop trapping him to
make him stick or be with you.
2. Playing Hard to Get For Long Isn’t No Good.
Some Women Believe Playing hard to get for long is a test
to know If the man Loves you or how patient he can wait
for her, but at some point it leads to the wrong corner, Men
get tired too and he will switch side to another woman and
his gonna forget about you. Am not trying to say you play
easy but at least know the Limits don’t Push him away.
3. Going to Clubs Isn’t Gonna Get You A good Man.
Clubbing and partying isn’t a bad thing that is if you’re
with your man but how does a guy who you met at the
club think about you? we Men love fun and this man you
meet in the club will just want to have fun with you and
not really want to a serious relationship.
4. Don’t Be So Hard On Men.
I know going through a lot is so hard for most women, all
the heartbreaks after being used, treated like trash can be
so consuming but this shouldn’t be every man’s fault, not
every man you will meet will same as your previous man,
sometimes its good to give a try and this time be keen
and know whats this new man intention, the result maybe
positive and you will be happy.

DONT TEXT THESE TO YOUR BOYFRIEND

You will all agree with me that texting is fun. There are
some things that are so much irritating when say it when
you are texting. Here are some of them.

1. Is There Someone Else?
Being insecure is only natural, but don’t be insecure to the
point where you start scaring your boyfriend. So he’s been
busy for a few days, he isn’t able to talk as much as he
does, don’t just assume things and Ask him if he’s seeing
someone else. If you have insecurities, it is always healthy
to talk them out in person And solve the issues in front of
him rather than texting him an accusation which then leads
to a fight.

2. Drunk Texts
Texting under the influence is never a good idea unless
you can really control yourself, and most of us can’t. Don’t
text under the influence, the things you say might cause a
terrible downfall in your relationship as your Boyfriend sees
your party side and how hard it is for you to control it. In
certain situations, drunk texts lead to Funny conversations
but that only happens a few times, most of the time you’ll
wake up thinking why you Said that and you shouldn’t
have.

3. Why Aren’t You Replying?
Understand the fact that your boyfriend may get a little too
busy with work and studies sometimes, and being A good
girlfriend you need to not be clingy and be supportive. Such
clingy messages like “Oh you’re ignoring Me now?” Will
only make him forcefully reply you because he doesn’t
want to have a fight or make you angry And think of a
thousand stories against him. Be supportive and be
patient. We all have personal space, we sure need the
space.
DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN BECOME A COMPUTER GEEK?

4. Screenshots From The Past
It is one of the weakest moves during an argument to
screen shot something your boyfriend said to you months
Ago and put it on their face to leverage your argument.
Keep the argument strictly based on the present and Don’t
try digging out things from the past that he probably
doesn’t even remember any more. It’ll lead to a Never-
ending fight with both of you trying as hard as you can to
hurt each other.

5. It’s over
So you decided to end it with your boyfriend, please be
humane enough to do it in person or even over a Phone
call. You should never, and I mean NEVER, break up over a
text message with just a few words. This kind of news is
sensitive and can really mess someone’s head up, this
sort of stuff needs to be dealt With care. It may also make
you seem like you’re scared to face them and to do it on
their face. In some Cases, if it really isn’t possible to call
or see him, at least don’t use the two words “It’s Over”.

6. A Little Too Much Sarcasm
Sarcasm doesn’t hurt, as long as it’s done right. If you’re
still in the initial stages with your guy, don’t try to be
Super-sarcastic to make yourself seem funny, you might
come off as rude. Do it at a normal level, but if the Texts
seems a bit iffy, avoid it.
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REASONS WHY LADIES REJECT SOME SOME MEN

Its not a new thing that women haven't stopped their usual way of ditching men. For men like me this is very embarrassing and most time affects us both emotionally and mentally
1. Bad presentation
First Impression Matters when your going on a date, bad
presentation is a total turn of to women, hygiene Is more
important, women want presentable and neat men not just
any guy who wears anything, If your a smoker or a
drunkard make sure you brush well cause bad smell is a
total turn off to women.
2. Being Boring
On dates women mostly listen and respond to what your
talking about, pick an interesting topic to talk about don’t
look boring cause she won’t like to have another date with
you if your dull and you have nothing to say. If your so shy
then prepare earlier before Going on a date.
3. Being Too Pushy and Nagging.
Sometimes you should know women don’t like being
nagged or being pushed to do some things. You don’t know
her past maybe she doesn’t want to go through same
experience, so stepping over the line will make her keep
away from you, If you want to win her Play by her rules,
with time your turn for her to get used to you will come.
4. Don’t Exaggerate on somethings.
Relax when you want to focus on a woman, be yourself and
don’t make up false and exaggerated stories cause women
do notice then, they have sense and most of them can look
at you and sense your lying to her. So be careful on what
your telling her.
5. Lack Of Ambitions.
Women like men with ambition not men who Just play
around not knowing where they are heading, having no
objective in your life can be a turn off to the woman you
want to date which leads to rejection in the end. Have
ambition and direction and she will be close to you.

HOW TO TALK TO A LADY FOR THE FIRST TIME AND WIN HER HEART

Maybe you have seen a girl around, and you have been dreaming of just going up and talking to her. However, approaching someone for the first time is nerve-wracking in most instances; add your new crush into the mix, and you might be a bumbling mess. Sometimes, though, the result is infinitely worth the risk.

1. Make eye contact. Spend a few days catching her gaze every now and then. Don’t just stare at her, though; instead, shoot her small glances until your eyes meet and she catches you. When she does, smile slightly and look away after a second. You’ll probably blush as well, which is all the better – blushing indicates you’re nervous, which is a hint that you like her.
2.  Time it right. When you do talk to her, pick a time that’s convenient. Don’t try to get her attention when she’s obviously involved in something else, and try to have a bit of privacy – you don’t have to be completely alone, but her attention shouldn’t be too distracted.
Make the interaction extra casual (and put a time limit on it) by talking to her while you’re both walking somewhere else. If you walk to a class at the same time as her, or you start walking the same way home, this is a great opening.
3.  Start with a compliment. Paying a girl the right compliment makes your intentions clear right away – she’ll know instantly that you’re interested in being more than her friend. Here are some things to consider:
Know how to deliver a compliment. Even the best compliment in the world will fall flat if your delivery is off. Keep a half smile as you talk – it will make you naturally add appealing inflection to your voice. (Try this trick out when you answer the phone sometime and see if you notice a difference.) Maintain eye contact with her, and keep the tones of your voice up, but lower the actual volume – speaking softly immediately communicates intimacy, and it can make her instinctively lean in closer to hear you. If this all sounds a bit difficult, practice it in front of a mirror first.
As anyone who’s ever had a stalker can tell you, there’s a fine but definite line between flattering and creepy. With this in mind, choose your compliment wisely. Saying something like “You always look amazing in that shirt” can come off as weird if you don’t know her well, and implies that you watch her. (Even if you do, it’s best not to spill that information immediately.) Instead, opt for something general but cute, such as “Your smile is glowing today. What’s making you so happy?” or “I thought what you said in class earlier was really interesting.” A good compliment should naturally lead to more conversation, instead of just hanging awkwardly in the air after you say it.
Know what to avoid. If you’re going to pay a girl a compliment about her physical looks, stick to her eyes, smile or hair. Do not comment on her body otherwise, especially on the first interaction.
If you want to play it extra safe, pick something you already know she’s proud of. For instance, if you know she’s a dedicated violinist, say something like, “I’ve heard you’re an amazing musician,” and use it as a way to ask her some questions about it.
4. Keep the conversation moving. You might be tempted to stop talking and just stare at this girl, but don’t let your nerves get the best of you. Allowing a long lull in the conversation will make things feel awkward.
5. Instead, have a mental list of backup questions you can use if you stumble on an uncomfortable pause.
Ask about what she thinks of a shared homework assignment or an upcoming event. Asking for her opinion communicates that you care about what she thinks, and see her as more than just an object.
Use the conversation to find out more about her, but be subtle. For instance, if you want to find out if she already has a boyfriend, you could casually ask, “So, anything fun planned with your boyfriend for the weekend?” If she doesn’t have one and she’s interested in you, she’ll let you know immediately.
Ask open-ended questions. For instance, instead of saying “So, have anything fun planned for the break?” (which can be answered with a short “yes” or “no”), say “What are you going to do to keep busy while school is out?” A question that requires a detailed response is always better to keep a conversation flowing.
6. Make her laugh (optional). If you’re sure you’ve got a joke she’ll appreciate, give it a shot. The goal is to show her you have an engaging sense of humor, but you don’t want to come off as desperate or cheesy.
If possible, crack a joke about the current situation or something you both saw happen. Situational humor is more meaningful than a joke you read online.
Don’t tell a dirty joke. It’s not appropriate for a first conversation, and it might give her the wrong impression.
If she doesn’t get the joke, don’t explain it to her unless she asks. Just move on quickly with a new point of conversation.
Good humor is really attractive, but bad humor is a complete turn off. If you can’t think of a joke that makes sense with the situation at hand, leave it alone.
7. Close the conversation early. Follow that old saying – “Always leave them wanting more.” Find a way to gracefully duck out of the conversation before it goes stale. Good luck!
What do you have to say?

OPEN LETTER TO EVERY LADY OUT THERE

Judging from my experience and observations on how ladies of nowadays take this world to be especially when love is mentioned. First ladies are the ones who contradict the whole things. Yes love is real and is also bound to fade with time (that is if its not maintained). So I have decided to write this open letter to our ladies. so i have been able to pick out some issues that can sustain your relationship and make you happy

FIRST IMPRESSION MATTERS

Ladies misinterpret the fact that when a man sees them and appreciates them that its now a crime and it leads to series of insults for the man. Ladies I know that most times an average beautiful lady is either dating or married, but we men out there we don’t know that unless you let us to know. Yes first impression matters a lot even if you don’t like the guy or you feel you are taken; the right thing to do is to say something like “hi, I know you know are interested in me or something like that but I would respect you a lot if you give me a breathing space cause I am occupied, taken or married (depending on the situation)”

WOMEN DONT KNOW THESE THINGS ABOUT THEIR BODY

REQUESTING FINANCIAL SUPPORT

And again ladies like to persuade their like guys for financial support, that is very nice and when wrongly done its now bad. Your boy friend is a man-to-be so he knows he is responsible to making his girl happy. But the last thing a guy needs is the mandatory aspect of it. Nothing turns on a man than a lady who is financially independent. That is why a man would leave his beautiful girlfriend and marry a lady who is less pretty but is financially dependent. The more you tell your guys I need an iphone, a laptop, Brazilian hair, sneakers, this make up and that dress, you are telling him you are not a marriage material and you just want to eat his money by all means. Yes at first he will feel proud that his girl is at least making him feel dedicated but he will feel bad when you make a mandatory. Yes he loves you and knows his responsibilities but doesn’t need a long note to tell what they are.

SEX AND LOVE

Well lets talk about one of the most important aspect of a relationship which is the duo love and sex. These are two different things which work hand-in-hand but I noticed that ladies think sex is love. Sorry if you are one of those who believe that because I man needs love more than he needs sex. What is miracle trying to say, yes it’s the secret you don’t know about. They need your constant calls, text, chats and drop-bys  more than that sex. Sex keeps you guys emotional active, I mean its makes you guys romantic but it has a limit. That’s is when love is needed, those times he stops calling, stops texting, stops calling you your favorite pet name and stops taking you out. Yes the truth is that he is busy with his life, work or anything. Yes he is a man and don’t expect him to be your sidekick follow like “Xena and Gabriel” . when he begins acting like that’s what he needs is assurance that you still love him and not sex.

 IS ANDROID APPS COSTLY? GET THEM FREE

BRAGGING

Its really funny when I see ladies bragging about one thing or the other. See he knew your father is rich, he knows you are more educated than he is, he knows you are more financially capable than he is before he decided to walk to you for a relationship. Hello, he is a man and the bitter truth is that you can’t be better than he is. He is proven to have a high level brain to deal with things, which you don’t have so please don’t brag, rather, please call him and let him see reasons with you and you guys can sort things out.

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