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It’s very rampant the issue of people complaining to love more than one person and today I was confronted by young lady who told me that she so much loves a young man but that the guy sees her as a casual friend and that she still loves her current boyfriend but that the love is not to be equated to the love she has for this young man, now her current boy friend is very serious seeing her as someone who so much love him, were as the lady is busy having a crush on another person.
So if by mistake you find yourself in the kind of situation
and you are wondering how to be free from complicating your feelings, just
cheer up and smile because I will be giving your clues on how to successfully
deal with such things, but you have to follow my clues wisely. Before I
continue with my explanations you have know that the same way you fall in-love
is equally the way you fall out of love. Now if you find yourself in a
difficult situation just
Follow your heart: - yes you heard me right, it’s your
feelings we are talking about and you know exactly what you want at any moment
and if you think your current spouse is not really up-to-the task of being your spouse then just let go!
Put them to test: - if you know you are a type that need
care and wants to be respected. The best way to find your perfect match is to
give them the opposite for a while to see who stands by your side. But be
cautious while doing this as it could give your more than joy because I found
out some people find it hard to deal with someone they love while others don’t,
so just be wise.
All that glitters are not gold:- like seriously? Yes! Some
people can present themselves to be drastically what they are not. So the best
way to deal with them is to just snub them from the beginning. When someone
seems not to have any flaw and seems to be just caring and always extravagant
and you think its love? Then you need to think twice and look deep down to
truly know him/her.
Change your life style: - this might sound weird but some
people love you because you behave in a particular way and if you should start
dating them, that means that in the future should you change that trait they
love in you then might cause havoc to you two, so its better you change now
that it’s too early so that you will know exactly if they “love you for you” or
“they love you for something”
Finally show your flaws:- people who don’t truly love you
tend to leave immediately they see your odds. So if you are confused on what to
go for? Then show your odd and see who still will tolerate you and be with you.
Now with this clues I believe you will not make unnecessary mistakes while
choosing your lover.
