WHY YOU KEEP HURTING YOUR GIRL

Based on my experience with women, and as a an adviser in relationships, i have noticed that apart from the popularly known characteristics
possessed by a woman, her fragile state is something
that most men forget. At times it is because most men
do not totally understand the depth of a woman’s
feelings thus their behavior. Below, I have listed some
of the things that whether said or done end up hurting
a woman’s feelings.

LIES
Lie to her. Lying to a woman who already knows the
truth is one thing but lying to her without her
knowledge is another. When a woman learns that you
have been lying to her in several occasions, she stops
trusting you out of the hurt you caused her.
Physical appearance critics.
Before you judge a woman by her complexion or size,
make sure you are 100% perfect. When you tell a
woman that her teeth are too spaced, she will spend
most of her time looking at herself in the mirror and
wondering how she can fix it.

Forgetting of important dates .
Set a reminder if you have to but do not forget her
birth date or your anniversary date. Those are special
memories that she expects you to have in mind for as
long as the word itself. Forgetting such important dates
only shows how little you care about your relationship.

The flirtatious man
A man who flirts with every other woman is a perfect
example of a disrespectful man. Some men have the guts
to do it right in front of their women.

The self – centered man
This is a man who thinks only of himself. He thinks the
world revolves around him and matters concerning his
partner do not matter to him. He does not care why she
was crying last night or why she is in a bad mood
because he is too focused on himself.
The abusive man
He physically or verbally abuses his partner frequently
and puts her down every time she gives her opinion on
something they are discussing about.

BUSY MAN
Most of the times he is usually busy watching soccer
with his friends or browsing the internet. He never has
time for his woman. He always has more important
things to do. No matter how busy a man is, he will
always find time to spend with his partner. Apparently,
that is how love and relationships work.

Public embarrassments
At times men overdo jokes about issues that may be
sensitive and embarrassing to women. For example
when a man publicly laughs at her open fly that was
offcourse a mistake. Embarrassing her in public
demeans a woman.
Sometimes a man may be hurting his woman’s feelings
without knowing it . Most of the times they do things
without knowing that she will be hurt. I say that if a
man does not know that he is hurting someone, he will
not change anything. Therefore, the list above should be
an aid that will help every man realize what he has
been doing wrong in his relationship and change for the
better.